Marilyn Clark
Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13
I have read this verse many times. Contemplated it’s meaning. Wondered what could possibly ever take place that I would literally have to give up my life for a friend. Then one day God (understanding my ability to over think things) taught me a simple life lesson. It had been a long week filled with lunch appointments, nightly meetings and an all day Saturday Ministry event. I left Church on Sunday morning looking forward to lunch in front of the TV with one of my favorite movies. My cell rang on the way home. A dear friend was recovering from surgery and needed some assistance that afternoon at her house. She was even willing to pay for our lunch if I just picked it up on my way. “No, Lord”, I thought. “I’m tired and I just need some me time.” Suddenly, all I could hear was that verse… that he lay down his life for his friends. This time, however, there seemed to be an extra word. That I lay down my life “agenda” for a friend. There it was. A clear meaning. God wasn’t dictating that I actually give up my living ,breathing life on this earth. God was asking me to set aside my wishes, desires and my agenda to show true love for my friend. What a great God. He gave me understanding, a great evening with a friend and even a free lunch.
{Father, Help me to never think myself and my agenda so important that I am all that matters. Help me to always be willing to lay my life down for others and be a willing servant. Thank you for setting the example!}